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RELATIONSHIPS


Words Matter: Harm builds over time. So does healing.
Language is often referred to as “just words.” But anyone who has ever walked into a classroom and suddenly felt smaller because of a joke, comment, nickname, or even silence knows that words are never just words. Belonging is more than simply being allowed into a space. Belonging is knowing your humanity will be respected once you are there.

Lillian Currie
May 14


Why Libraries Are Vital Third Spaces, Featuring Dear TPL: The Passport Project
The Toronto Public Library has supported people through moments that are deeply personal and often invisible. It has been there during unemployment, long study sessions, childhood afternoons, and later-in-life learning curves. These forms of support do not always get acknowledged.

Stephanie Ta
Feb 9


Letter from the Editor-in-Chief: Holding Multiple Truths
As the year turns, we’re invited into a season that often arrives wrapped in a package of expectation: celebration, connection, spiritual renewal, reflection. Yet the holidays also hold multiple truths at once, and for many, the season arrives with more complexity than cheer—distance from family, uncertainty about the future, unresolved conflicts, and more questions about spirituality and religion than answers; alongside the not-so subtle pressure to reinvent ourselves on Jan

Gillian Smith-Clark
Dec 8, 2025


A Holiday Gift Guide to Help You Spend & Consume Less
When everything is expensive, you want to be more sustainable, or produce as little waste as possible, it’s time to think outside of the box.
The Holidays don’t need to be about spending money—they can be about taking the time to make meaningful things.

The 44 North Team
Dec 8, 2025


Holidays Away From Home: Everything is Going to Be Different Now
This is my first Christmas away from home. Not away as in university or somewhere thirty minutes away, trying to make a landlord special house a home. I mean away as in 4,000 kilometres away. I love everything about British Columbia and my little life on the island. I love the misty mornings as the night’s rain rolls off the mountains and the lizards under my feet and the weather that never really gets that cold. Not like the cold back home. Not like anything I’m used to back

Abbigale Kernya
Dec 8, 2025


Share the Cold: What Penguins Teach us about Survival—and What We Owe Each Other Now.
In the brutal winters of Antarctica, emperor penguins huddle in tight circles, taking turns at the outermost edge where the cold bites hardest. Every few minutes, they shuffle—rotating positions—so no penguin bears the burden of exposure for too long. Scientists call this “thermal cooperation.”

Karli Elizabeth PHD(C)
Aug 5, 2025


Phantom Families
by Hailey Hechtman for The 44 North Contributing Writer X: @HaileyHechtman IG: @hailey.hechtman Hailey Hechtman is a social impact leader and mental health advocate. She is passionate about inspiring positive change through community collaboration, constant learning and self-reflection. Watch her interview on 'Life Outside the Box' here . People's shadows in a smudged window This is a story of loss. But not in the way that you might be imagining it. Not the form with f

Hailey Hechtman
Apr 8, 2025


Outgrowing Friendships
As we grow and navigate the infinite twists and turns of life we may often find ourselves in a particularly difficult and awkward fork in the road - outgrowing a friendship. While there are endless articles, books, podcasts, and movies about the end of romantic relationships, we often don’t speak about what happens when a friendship has run its course.

Emma Shehan
Feb 4, 2025


Stars in My Pocket
How many stars do we carry without realizing it? My cousin and I once ravaged through the cold, cluttered basement, hunting for taped hockey sticks misplaced during the move. We planned to roll a rubber ball outdoors between makeshift laundry-bucket goalposts. Among the mess, a dust-covered digital piano sat tilted on dented cardboard boxes — the perfect distraction. My fingers instinctively pressed its keys, repeating the only six chords I’d ever learned.

Kritika Sharda
Feb 4, 2025


How and Where to Make New Friends in Your 20s
We all remember the good ol’ days in high school where just entering a Grade 11 classroom opened you to the vast opportunities of meeting new friends. Whether seated next to them in class or assigned to a group project together, there was always the possibility of meeting a new peer. Even after-school extracurriculars like dance or soccer allowed you to meet various individuals who enjoyed the same hobbies as you.

Helena Nikitopoulos
Feb 4, 2025


8 Ways to Say “No” to Alcohol: You’re Not a Stick in the Mud
Whether you’re at a club, bar, party, or special work event, alcohol consumption has always been a shared activity amongst high school and college students, family and co-workers. Alcohol is so normalized during social events that when someone declines to drink, they are often judged, met with sideways glances, and pressured to drink despite saying no.

Helena Nikitopoulos
Dec 9, 2024


RELATIONSHIP GREEN FLAGS
Human brains are naturally wired to notice negatives. It’s a survival mechanism, helping us identify and avoid threats to our safety so, it is important to be aware of problematic red flag behaviours that can signal trouble in any partnership.

Maureen Pollard
Feb 6, 2024
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